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In this article, I will share the best piece of advice about life and relationship you can give someone.
1. Temporary People Can Cause Permanent Damage.
Some people can be classified as temporary people, they are not bad people, but they leave permanent bad damage on your life. They come into life like a storm and leave you damaged permanently.
Their damage is not fully visible at the beginning, but it will be visible, and one day you will understand that the way they affected you was wrong and destructive. But it is hard to believe they were bad people because they are good and sweet to you.
When you meet them, they charm you with their words, presence and attitude. They look like genuine and noble human beings. They look like a true friend to you. They create an impression that they will never hurt you or damage you.
But after they get what they want from you, they try to put you in a place where it is difficult for you to function well.
2. Love is a Risk. But Do It Anyway.
Love is the riskiest game in life, but you have to play it anyway because life has no meaning without it.
The decision to love is a risk in many ways. The decision to love an individual man or woman can come with a high price tag and life-altering consequences, both good and bad. But do it anyway.
The decision to love someone can cause you to become vulnerable and show parts of you that you don’t want the world to see. The decision to love someone can cause you to lose your way and lose sight of your goals and your personal dreams. The decision to love risks time and emotions, but that’s beside the point.
If you love someone, you have to accept the fact that you might lose them because life is uncertain and unpredictable.
When you lose someone you love, you can’t even begin to imagine how painful and complex it will be. It will be so hard for you to move on. It’s like an ocean of pain that you must swim in without a life vest.
3. You Weren’t Asking for Too Much. You Were Just Taking the Wrong Person.
When you fall in love, you build up this other person so they can be the right person for you, but when they come around and are not the right person, you wonder why you expected so much in the first place.
I guess it’s because love is a risk—that’s why. Falling in love is taking a risk, and when people ask why they’re alone, they shouldn’t blame anyone else but themselves.
If you don’t take a risk, you don’t live. Some people are always looking for their perfect romantic partner—they wait for them to stumble into their life, like falling in love is something that happens to them. When it does happen, they take whatever scraps of love are left over for them.
Don’t take that wrong person to the wrong places. You should give them your full attention, best intentions and the benefit of the doubt. But if they don’t recognize their privilege in being with you and are unwilling to be better, let them go.
It’s okay because time doesn’t wait for anyone, neither do you, so don’t wait for them. Move on. Find someone who deserves all of your love and attention.
4. True Love is When Two People Make Each Other Love Themselves More.
I don’t know why people hate true love so much or why it’s so hard to believe it exists. Love doesn’t have a colour or sexual preference—that’s what makes it so unique.
True love is rare, especially nowadays when everything is fake—people are affected, relationships are bogus, sex is fake, money is fake, and everything is fake. People settle for what’s convenient.
I realized that if we all opened our eyes to the deepest and most genuine parts of ourselves — flaws and all — we’d have a much better chance of finding lasting and unconditional love.
I think that’s what true love really means: when someone sees you and all your imperfections but still believes in you. They see your beauty and accept all of your flaws. They make you love yourself in a way that no one else can.
5. You Deserve Someone Whose Vibe Meets Yours.
Someone so unique that everything you do together feels effortless and right. You deserve someone who balances your polarities. Who silences the fears that keep you up at night and makes you feel brave enough to live your best life.
Someone who won’t let you coast through life but will hold you accountable to your goals and be the best version of yourself.
A soulmate helps you love yourself more because they see the best in you and bring it into the world. You are worthy of a partner who makes you better, celebrates your strengths and loves you for exactly who you are.
While most of us are on this journey looking for that person with whom to settle down, we’re also looking for our most authentic selves.
You deserve to be loved for who you are. And not just for one weekend or one day. But for every day, every week, every month, and every year to come. You deserve someone whose vibe, energy, wavelength, and frequency are in sync with yours.
6. Feelings That Come Back Are Feelings That Never Left.
You can get back some feelings that come back; some people will return to the feelings of love.
If you’re in a relationship, have you ever had any of these feelings? You break up with someone and then feel, on some levels, that you can’t leave it. As you know, it’s not the right thing for you.
Your ex may have even done something horrible to you, but sometimes when feelings come back, they don’t come back to be mean. They come back to save you from making a mistake. Because they remember what it feels like to be with that person.
7. Sometimes Imaginations Are Better Than Reality.
Sometimes imaginations are better than reality, and the saddest part is that this illusion will end. We are obsessed with creating illusions that are based on real stories. However, it doesn’t change the fact that we live in an era where we make our own stories.
Our life philosophy is that we don’t need to change our story because life changes in unexpected ways. Kind of like how we want our clothing to be simple but with a little flavour so we can stick with it.
We want to live by the motto “less is more”, “Do less, but do it well”, and “Plan less, but plan it right”. So, these are the best piece of advice about life and relationship you can give someone.